Lessons from the Field
Systemic Constellations Case Studies
A system is made up of explicit elements, including people, but also invisible dynamics and resources, unspoken rules that everybody follows even though they don’t talk about them, hidden loyalties and allegiances, as well as the aftershocks of difficult events in the past.
If we want to support change in something then we will, by definition, need a systemic perspective to see what is really going on and then systemic methodology to make a difference that makes the difference.
Revealing Hidden Patterns, Restoring Relationships
Case Study: «Breaking the Unseen Barrier to Long-Term Relationships with Men»
In a recent systemic constellation session, a woman came with the intention of removing an invisible block that was preventing her from being in long-term relationships with man. She couldn’t pinpoint exactly what was hindering her. The only expression she had was, “I don’t see it. It’s something invisible to me.”
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Case Study: «Hidden Family Dynamics Behind Loneliness in Relationships»
Due to complicated connections and hidden family dynamics, we sometimes end up feeling alone, not only when it’s tough to begin a relationship but even when we’re already in one.
In this case study, I’m exploring the dynamics that might lead to this sense of loneliness, providing an opportunity to see our relationships from a fresh perspective.
Grasping these dynamics can be a starting point for personal growth and the cultivation of deeper, more satisfying relationship and life.
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Case Study: «4 Hidden Systemic Dynamics Behind Lack of Intimacy and Trust in Couple Relationships»
Embarking on a journey to mend and enhance couple relationships involves addressing common requests such as rebuilding trust, fostering visibility, and establishing intimacy and healthy boundaries.
In my exploration, I delve into the systemic dynamics within couples that could contribute to a feeling of being unseen, unheard, or emotionally distant, offering an opportunity to view our relationships with a renewed perspective.
Case Study: «Incomplete Relationships with a Former Partner»
This case study explores the impact of past romantic relationships on people’s lives, using systemic constellations as a guide. We’ll see how old connections continue to affect emotions, family dynamics, and the quest for closure.
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Case Study: «Transforming Relationship Patterns: A Man’s Journey to Healing and Growth»
In 2020 I facilitated one constellation around difficulties in relationship with a woman.
The Issue: One man felt miserable in his relationship with his woman. He was constantly plagued by guilt as if he was a failure. He experienced anger towards his partner and didn’t know how to change it.
Desired Outcomes: The man wanted to boost his confidence, bring more peace in his relationship with his partner, let go of self-concepts and his belief “I am a a failure”, find the roots of his anger.
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Case Study: The systemic nature of jealousy
“The jealous person unconsciously wishes that the partner would go away” Bert Hellinger
Some of the unconscious systemic dynamics lie behind jealousy
Case Study: «Rediscovering Sibling Love: Insights from a Constellation Session»
I recently facilitated a constellation around a difficult relationship between a brother and sister.
This particular constellation showed that this form of work can be a very helpful tool to show the underlying dynamics of such relationships.
The woman’s primary question was in short: ‘How can I improve my relationship with my brother? I love him deeply, but I fear rejection and carry shame from my past actions. I’m afraid he’ll discover it, and I’ll lose him.’
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Ritual “Ignite Your Own Fire”
I learned many rituals from Daan van Kampenhout. Each time I practice them, I discover new depth, wisdom, and a fresh movement in my Soul. I have incorporated many of them into my work with people.
Below, I share one of these rituals. It is suitable for you if you feel stuck in your past relationship with your partner.
Ritual “I let myself be found”
For those who are single and looking for a partner to create a couple.
Illuminating What’s Hidden: Transforming Business Potential
Case Study: «Uncovering Self-Sabotage Patterns in Pursuit of Success»
Introduction: In this case study, we explore the hidden dynamics of self-sabotage and its impact on an individual’s journey toward success. It revolves around a female client who consistently encountered setbacks just when her projects appeared to be successful.
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Case Study: «How can I generate income from my practice?»
In this case study, a talented professional woman, skilled in her field, faced a difficult situation: her practice thrived in terms of skills and expertise but remained devoid of money.
Amongst those represented were “her practice with money,” “her practice without money,” and the client herself.
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Case Study: «Choosing Challenges: The Familiar Past or the Unknown Future»
Many problems in life arise from a lack of decision-making. Not making a decision is also a decision. However, “sitting on the fence” for too long is unsafe.
The tetralemma constellation helps to integrate the non-chosen with chosen. It is strongly process-oriented.
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Hidden Patterns, Life-Changing Insights
Case Study: «Navigating the Emotional Terrain of Immigration»
Recently, during a conversation with a friend, the topic of immigration to another country surfaced. Having made my own move in 2017, I was well-acquainted with the challenges and emotional roller-coaster that comes with relocating. It struck me that many of the individuals I work with have either recently immigrated themselves or come from families with a history of immigration.
The subject of immigration extends beyond the physical act of moving; it delves deep into the emotional state that individuals often grapple with during and after the transition. It’s important to note that not everyone experiences this, but for those who do, it can be profoundly impactful.
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Case Study: Encounter with the Heart Power (exercise with two person)
Heart Power accompany the Participants through in-person Systemic Constellations
I got to know the basic model of these exercises with Daan van Kampenhout and Siegfried Essen in 2021.
It’s the partner exercise. The pairs agree who starts to take over the representation of the heart power first.
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Case Study: «Extra Weight is Far from Extra»
Excess weight serves a vital purpose – it provides protection, comfort, and a shield.
A body devoid of this protective layer reveals its innermost desires, emotions, and vitality without reservation.
While words can attempt to conceal true emotions, the body does not allow itself to be hidden. Its movements are visible. Waist, hips, shoulders are visible. It’s evident what it carries on its back.
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Case Study: Constellations In Metaphorical Realm
I love Constellations in Metaphorical Realm for their practical application. For the simplicity and, at the same time, the depth of processes that help a person find a way out of a complex situation, change the life script, and resolve a problem.
Case Study: Taking On Suffering On Behalf Of Others
What might help you to be healed from suffering? What might influence on the result of work that includes suffering?
Case Study: The Hidden Pain of Forgotten Talents and Potential
Have you ever wondered how overlooked talents can affect your life? In the hustle and bustle of everyday existence, it’s easy for our innate abilities to lie dormant, like buried treasures waiting to be unearthed. But what happens when these talents remain neglected, hidden beneath the surface of our consciousness?