Working with couples using Family Constellation work offers a powerful means to illustrate the impact of ‘what we bring’ to the relationship.

To deal only with visible wrongs is like trimming the leaves of a weed when you mean to uproot it. Family Constellations is the mechanism that uproots these dysfunctions. It offers a realm in which the unseen part of the dysfunction is worked on in ways that affect the seen.

During Family Constellations Session I will help you:

• reveal hidden patterns behind a relationship difficulty. It bypasses the story, focuses on facts and gets to the heart of the issue quickly, creating insights, energy and motivation for action without blame or judgement.

• find your “right place” in a system – an abstract quality that is often only “felt”. Family Constellations work involve an embodied experience of right place.

• face your own truth – your strength and limitations, your responsibilities, your hidden loyalties. It enables you to release fresh energy to create a shift.

• get a new way of looking at old communications patterns. By receiving this clarity you also gain access to your unused potential and you can deal with your question in a very different way than before.

FAQ

– Is it important to have an intention before our constellation?

Yes. Your intention or purpose is the driving force that contributes to the effectiveness of your family constellation for couples.

– What is family constellation work for couples?

Family Constellations is a powerful method for revealing hidden patterns in relationships. It helps couples uncover deeper layers of unresolved emotions or dynamics that may be holding them back. Through this process, couples gain clarity on recurring challenges and create space for their authentic connection to grow.

– Do we each have our own constellation, or do we do one together?

Both of you will have the opportunity to set up your own unique constellation in a context of your couple’s challenge.

– Will our constellation be done privately with you, or in a group with representatives?

You can receive your constellation either privately or in a group with representatives. Both ways offer a unique experience and depth of exploration. You’re welcome to choose the format that feels right for you.

– Is prior experience with family constellations work required?

No prior experience is necessary.

– What guarantees do you give that you will solve our problem?

There are no guarantees, as each person’s process is unique. What I can promise is my full presence and commitment to support you in transforming your situation in the direction you wish. Sometimes the outcome may unfold differently than expected, yet it often brings a deeper resolution. Your personal transformation also depends on many factors, including your motivation, readiness, and inner work after your constellations. Because a constellation always ends with the start of something new…

– How can I know if my constellation worked?

You can recognize it by the changes that begin to unfold after the session. The constellation facilitates a healing movement which is sudden and concrete. On the spiritual level, the result is a shift of the energy and your shifted inner state. On the personality level, the result is images: especially how it looked just before it was ended. Both of them lead to changes in how you interact with people and the world, and eventually to a different way of living. Moreover, you become more available to your own life, feeling more strength and confidence. Many clients notice shifts within days, some within months, and others within a year or more. It is important to pay close attention to the changes in your state and to take practical steps to adjust your life accordingly.

– Can I discuss our constellation or get additional explanations after the session?

No. Explanations strongly distort the post-constellation process. It is recommended not to discuss the constellation with anyone at all.

– Can I ask to do a constellation for my daughter (son, father, mother or siblings)?

No. You can do a constellation only for yourself.

– How often can family constellations be done?

There are different opinions. I do both single constellation sessions for one request, as well as programs that include several constellation sessions for different requests or a complex challenge, typically spaced two weeks apart.

Often, while other forms of therapy may require years of intense emotional work, a single family constellation session can bring about a profound change in those who receive it.

About My Tools in Use

I facilitate clients’ journeys with Spiritual Family Constellations in the Wheel of Four Directions, a unique combination of Spiritual Family Constellation, developed by Bert Hellinger in 2006, several other constellation approaches from different authors, Systemic Ritual®, Rituals in the Wheel of the Four Directions, and Energetic Coaching.

If you are familiar with constellation methods and would prefer me to work with you using only one specific approach, please let me know in advance. Likewise, if you wish to exclude Systemic Ritual® or Constellations work in the Wheel of the Four Directions, kindly inform me beforehand.

In individual sessions, I work with figures and objects as representations.

Spiritual Family Constellations

When we turn to traditional counselling or self-help, we are usually looking a way to “fix” our “problem. Common solutions might be entail improving communication skills, identifying unproductive interaction patterns, or changing some specific behaviors.

But some patterns do not begin with us. We carry imprints from our ancestral line, unresolved stories passed through the nervous system and tissues, often without words.

When we step into Family Constellations, we are entering a realm of uncommon solution and go beyond the “reasons and consequences.”

We enter the transgenerational (ancestral) and the large spiritual Field. From this broader relational space, healing movements begin to arise – the deepest hidden patterns within our family and personal history become visible. What has been excluded, entangled, or held in silence can begin to move.

This is not about fixing or controlling—it is about allowing. Through this process, deeper truths emerge, restoring balance, belonging, and a profound sense of wholeness that support your movement toward what deeply calls you. Many experienced constellations as a release from captivity, allowing them the freedom to act differently and in a fulfilling way.

Energy Healing Coaching deepens this process by releasing energetic blockages, reduce stress, and promote overall well-being, helping you feel more grounded and resilient in daily life.

Systemic Ritual® and Rituals in the Wheel of the Four Directions developed by Daan Van Kampenhout, support this process. It doesn’t solely focus on the problem and details of a situation. Instead, it provides a structure that allows you to experience wholeness instead of fragmentation, a sense of being supported rather than standing empty-handed. It’s not about direct problem-solving but about creating a profound sense of unity.

Neo-Reichian Pulsations, developed by Aneesha Dillon, supports this process on the body level. Through breath, movement, and expression, it helps release held tensions and awaken vital energy. This method restores aliveness and presence, complementing constellation and ritual work. I offer Neo-Reichian Pulsations in in-person half-day immersions as a way to integrate insights through direct embodied experience.

Ways We Can Work Together