Ritual “I let myself be found”
For those who are single and looking for a partner to create a couple.
My deepest thanks go to Daan Van Kompenhout, Bert Hellinger, and Elena Veselago for the profound impact they have had on my journey. One of the rituals that has been particularly meaningful in my work is rooted in their teachings. Let me walk you through this transformative ritual, which I have found to be deeply healing.
- Put down two pillows, or other objects, four meters apart to mark your space on the floor. A straight line connects these two items. This line symbolizes the part of the life path of someone who would suit you as a life partner.
- Stand at one end of the life line and say: “This is the point where a man/woman who is a match for me as a partner comes into the world.” You can use other words that better express how you feel at this point.
- Now, walk to the other end of the imaginary line and stand there quietly for a moment. “At this point, a wonderful person who could be my partner finds happiness. Here, they find their love, relationship, their life companion.
- Then, leave this point and stand a few steps away from it. From here, look at the line and the two marked points. In one of them, this person is born; in the other, they find their partner. Between them is the life path, from one moment to the other. Just as you are searching for a partner, the person whose life path you’ve outlined is also on a quest. So, you need to ensure that you become the partner with whom they find their happiness.
- Therefore, take a decisive step forward and stand in the middle of the line. In the point near where the other person finds their happiness, and look at the point where your partner is born.
- Now, imagine that they are coming toward you, but not specifically looking for you as a person. After all, they don’t know you yet and are still unaware of their great happiness. They are simply looking for a partner in general.
- You are standing at the middle of their life path, and now you imagine that, in their search for happiness, they will meet you as if by chance. The moment you meet, say to them: “I will let myself be found. By you.”