An Invitation to Explore

If there is one feeling that you have been running away from all your life, then what is that feeling?

Constellation Setup

The group of 2 people:

The 1st one represents this Feeling,

The 2nd – the person represents himself.

The 1st Rep says the words to the 2nd person: “Please hold me.”

Then the 2nd person looks at the 1st rep (his feeling) and says: “I hold you.”

An Invitation to Explore

What did the client’s mother give when she fed a client?

Constellation Setup

The group of 3 people:

The 1st one represents a client,

The 2nd one represents his mother,

The 3d one represents food (what was forced or forbidden)

When the constellation set up, Reps share what they feel and how they connect with each other.

An Invitation to Explore

Where would B be in this room?

Constellation Setup

Person A – a client,

Person B – the part of A that knows about A’s desires but doesn’t speak about them.

When the constellation set up, B can describe her experience.

Often, this leads to new self-discoveries that can help A take another step forward.

Constellation Setup #1

A – a Client

B – the client’s potential

Here are two questions:

Can the client see how much potential there is?

Can the client see if the potential is blocked or not?

Can the client notice what is happening to him, can they look into each other’s eyes, does the client want to run away or come closer?

Constellation Setup #2

A – a Client or a Rep for the Client,

B- a part of the client’s System, that draws the client’s attention to itself

C – What the client’s gained to belong to the system,

D – The client’s original potential that was left unfulfilled when the client got sucked into the system.

When the constellation set up, all Reps can describe their experience.

Often, this leads to new self-discoveries that can help A take another step forward.

Constellation Setup #3

A – a Client,

B – His system (team, work, couple)

C – How much potential there (Intuitively observes how much potential is realized)

D – How much potential can ‘flow,’ be expressed, and whether this is even possible flow,

E – The reason that holds back unused potential (connect with one good reason why the unused potential is not flowing)

C, D,E looking internally at unused potential say answer in one sentence without any thoughts of using unused potential: What would start if unused potential unleashed

Constellation Setup #4

A – a Client,

B – What he’s struggling with (his difficult situation)

C – his reaction on B

D – Former situation in the past that connected to B

E – Something from the future that might be become possible

Steps:

(1) A look at B

(2) A look at C

(3) A look at D and say Yes, you were there

(4) A look with kind eyes at C and say “I start to understand you”

(5) A look at B and say: “You are only situation”

(6) A look at E and notice what the quality or essences E represents. No need to understand.

Constellation Setup #5

A – a Client,

B – His main pattern

C – that part of original he left behind when he was taken into the system

D (optional) – what I gained to belong to my system (pattern)

Steps:

It is useful when participants fell tied in the Constellations Circle.

(1) A look at B no need to name this pattern

How A relate to B?

Could A feel any gratitude that My pattern gave me?

(2) A look at C and after a few minutes just check weather A is ready to take C inside or not.

Do I want to reconnect with C?

How would it be if A take C inside?

Client can take a symbol of this part.

Preferable way of doing this exs is in silence. But A can ask C about qualities.

Constellation Setup #1

A- a client

B – Symptom or his issue

C – The internal part supports for change

D – The internal part against change

Constellation Setup #2

A – a client

B – what a client fights with

A says to B: Yes, you exist. You have a place.

Constellation Setup #3

A – a client

B – his fear

C – The client’s purpose

D – Pressure

Notice what kind relationship a client has with his body.

Constellation Setup #4

A – My inner child

B – My adult part

C – What I’ve learned

Constellation Setup #5

A – Giver

B – Receiver

B imagine that both A and B into the bubble.

A think about his request,but no need to talk about it. A can close his eyes. (2-3 min)

B just open what happens to him. Thoughts, ideas, feelings, sensations, but don’t try to understand.

After 2-3 minutes B can share what came in during this practice. A can also share how B’s sharing is connected to A’s request.

Constellation Setup #1

The group of two people.

A – the voice of complains about B.

B – A’s partner

Person A starts complaining (what A wanted to tell her/his partner but couldn’t do it)

Person B doesn’t answer, but feels what the effect of listening it.

Just notices what you want to do, how your body wants to react.

3 min – one round then 2 min sharing. Then switch roles.

Notice what topic will be repeated.

Constellation Setup #2

A – a client,

B – his or her SICK Partner

Person A says to Person B: “Dear husband, perhaps our time is closing down. Let’s enjoy ourselves. Time is lost. Let’s enjoy ourselves as long as it lost.”

Then facilitator can ask: “Are you better with it or you are worst with it?”

Constellation Setup #3

A – ask B the one question: How do you want to be loved?

B is answering to this question for 3 min. No sharing.

Then switch roles.

Constellation Setup #4

A – a part of me that stays alone with myself.

B – a part of me is ready to connect with partner

C – a part of me that is contact with partner (ability to express my own needs, desires, ability to trust)

D – a part of me that step into intimacy with partner (no judgements)

E – a part of me that merge with my partner (needs that is fulfilled or not)

It might be use for exploration of the connection with partners or with others. The quality of receiving and giving.

Where is the most tension?

Constellation Setup #5

A – a Client
B – His Patner
C – Client’s Nasty Self

A looks at B and say: When I’m in trouble this part of me – C will take over.

Take time and say: It’s just part of me.

B looks at C and say: Yes. You are exist.

Constellation Setup #1

A – a client

B – Rep for child with strange behaviour

C – Rep for this strange behaviour

D – Rep for “what the behavior is pointing to”

A says to D: “Even if I don’t know who you are or what it is, I know you need space”

Constellation Setup #1

A – Rep for a Client,

B – Rep for Money,

C – Rep for The client’s Relationship with Money

D – Rep for Hidden Relationships that would liked to be seen.

Keep in mind that money is the vehicle of exchange. So it can easily be associated with an exchange that once led to a deterioration or breakdown of a relationship (your relationship with something/someone/event, or a relationship in your parents’, ancestors).

Ask the Rep for a client

Look at the money (B)

Look at your relationship with money and discover what it is like. Just listen to all the thoughts in your head without evaluating.

Then look at the Rep Hidden Unknown Relationship – and just open yourself up to a possible connection to some other relationship. You probably won’t know what it is, but just allow the possibility that your relationship with money is connected to another relationship.

Constellation Setup #1

Figure 1: A Practitioner,

Figure 2: Unknown

Figure 3: The Readiness to step into Unknown

Explore relationships between these elements

Constellation Setup #2

Figure 1: A Practitioner,

Figure 2: The contact with a client

Figure 3: What this contact brings to Figure 1

Explore relationships between these elements.

Constellation Setup #3

Figure 1: A Practitioner

Figure 2: Business

Figure 3: The Practitioner’s Mother

Explore relationships between these elements.

Constellation Setup #4

Figure 1: A Practitioner

Figure 2: What the practitioner’s colleagues talk about him

Explore relationships between these elements.

Constellation Setup #5

Figure 1: A Practitioner

Figure 2: what the practitioner will be, when his practice is well-run

Figure 3: What or whom he will lose

Figure 4: Clients

Explore relationships between these elements. An Exploration of Success and new image of ourselves and cost. Success is always alone.

Constellation Setup #6

Figure 1: a Practitioner

Figure 2: a Practitioner’s uniqueness that a client comes to them or They unknown power or They power that they hide

Figure 3: Clients

Explore relationships between these elements.

Constellation Setup #7

Group of two people and you need to have 5 papers.

(1) Choose who will do the work & who will represent your client

(2) On 3 papers, write 3 prices (the one you think is the right one and 2 others: up &down)

(3) Mix them faced down and place them on the floor without knowing which is which, with a space between them.

(4) Feel each one (at the beginning test just 3 papers) and choose the best one or choose the worst and decide which is the best of the other two

(5) Look at the price and make your own reflection. Keep this paper.

(6) Take 2 other paper and write down new prices, one slightly higher and another slightly lower that the one you choose before. Mix 3 papers.

(7) Place the 3 on the floor without knowing which is which with space between them.

(8) Ask Rep of the your client to stand up in front of you with each paper between both of you and at the same distance as you. Check how each of you feels with each one.

(9) Take you own conclusions.

Here we can explore two patterns:

(1) How do I value myself?
(2) How do my clients value my service or products?