What shapes our lives most is often unseen. The guidance we receive, the challenges we face, the inner growth we cultivate, and the marks we leave—these are what truly form the path we walk.

To deal only with visible difficulties is like trimming the leaves of a weed when you mean to uproot it. Family Constellations is the tool that uproots these hidden influences. It offers a realm in which the unseen part of your challenges is addressed in ways that also affect your visible realm.

During a Family Constellations session, you will be supported to:

• Reveal hidden patterns behind your challenges. Together we get to the heart of the matter quickly—creating insights, energy, and motivation for action without blame or judgment.
• Find your “right place” in a system. It is an abstract quality that is often only felt. Family Constellations provide an embodied experience of this alignment, helping you sense where you truly belong.
• Face your own truth—your strengths and limitations, responsibilities, and hidden loyalties. This awareness allows you to release fresh energy.
• Create a meaningful shift – the constellation facilitates a healing movement which is sudden and concrete. On the spiritual level, the result is a shift of the energy and your shifted inner state. On the personality level, the result is images: especially how it looked just before it was ended. Both of them lead to changes in how you interact with people and the world, and eventually to a different way of living.

Questions arise naturally when we step into the unseen and unknown. How does it work? What will I experience? What changes are possible? These questions are part of the journey, just as the path unfolds one step at a time. Here, I gather some answers to guide you forward.

– Is it important to have an intention before my constellation?

Yes. Your intention or purpose is the driving force that contributes to the effectiveness of your family constellation.

– What guarantees do you give that you will solve my problem?

There are no guarantees, for each journey is unique, and each soul follows its own rhythm. What I can promise is my full presence and commitment to support you in transforming your situation in the direction your heart seeks. Sometimes the outcome unfolds in ways we did not expect, yet often it leads to a resolution far deeper than we could imagine. Your transformation depends on many things: your readiness, your willingness to face what arises, and the inner work that continues after your constellation in your daily life. Because a constellation always ends with the start of something new…

– How can I know if my constellation worked?

You can recognize it by the changes that begin to unfold after the session. The constellation facilitates a healing movement which is sudden and concrete. On the spiritual level, the result is a shift of the energy and your shifted inner state. On the personality level, the result is images: especially how it looked just before it was ended. Both of them lead to changes in how you interact with people and the world, and eventually to a different way of living. Moreover, you become more available to your own life, feeling more strength and confidence. Many clients notice shifts within days, some within months, and others within a year or more. It is important to pay close attention to the changes in your state and to take practical steps to adjust your life accordingly.

– Can I discuss my constellation or get additional explanations after the session?

No. Explanations strongly distort the post-constellation process. It is recommended not to discuss the constellation with anyone at all.

– Can I ask to do a constellation for my daughter (son, husband, mother)?

You can do a constellation only for yourself.

– How often can family constellations be done?

First of all, it depends on you and your request — how deep you wish to go, and how far you are willing to explore. Each journey is unique, and the pace is guided by your intention and readiness.

While other forms of therapy may require years of intense emotional work, even a single Family Constellation session can bring profound change for those who are open to it.

I offer both single constellation sessions for one specific request, as well as programs that include several sessions to address multiple requests or a more complex challenge, typically spaced about two weeks apart.

– Are there certain requests for which family constellations work especially well? Are there requests for which they are less effective?

Since family constellations work with your energy and inner state rather than the request itself, the request can be virtually anything: personal life challenges, health, family relationships, the desire to have children, loneliness and partnership, money, business, and more.

At the same time, experience shows that family constellations rarely produce quick improvements in the following situations: alcoholism and drug addiction or other severe dependencies, psychiatric diagnoses, acute social trauma (unjust court decisions, hostile takeovers, etc.), and serious physical illnesses. In these cases, it is still possible to work on gradual, small improvements in your inner state.

About My Tools in Use

I facilitate clients’ journeys with Spiritual Family Constellation, developed by Bert Hellinger in 2006, several other constellation approaches from different authors, Systemic Ritual®, Constellations and Rituals in the Wheel of the Four Directions, and Energy Healing Coaching.

If you are familiar with constellation methods and would prefer me to work with you using only one specific approach, please let me know in advance. Likewise, if you wish to exclude Systemic Ritual® or Constellations work in the Wheel of the Four Directions, kindly inform me beforehand.

In individual sessions, I work with figures and objects as representations.

Family Constellations

Often, when we seek guidance—through counseling, coaching, or self-help—we look for ways to “fix” a problem. We try to improve communication, adjust behaviors, or change patterns in our relationships.

But some patterns begin before us. They are imprints from our ancestors, unresolved stories carried silently through generations, embedded in our nervous system and in our bodies.

Family Constellations invite us to step into a broader relational field, beyond cause and effect. In this space, we can perceive what has been hidden, excluded, or entangled in silence. Subtle movements of recognition and release begin to happen naturally.

This work is not about fixing or controlling. It is about noticing, allowing, and opening to what wants to be seen. Through this process, deeper truths emerge, restoring a sense of balance, belonging, and wholeness—and supporting your movement toward what truly calls you.

Energy Healing Coaching deepens this process by releasing energetic blockages, reduce stress, and promote overall well-being, helping you feel more grounded and resilient in daily life.

Systemic Ritual® and Rituals in the Wheel of the Four Directions developed by Daan Van Kampenhout, support this process. It doesn’t solely focus on the problem and details of a situation. Instead, it provides a structure that allows you to experience wholeness instead of fragmentation, a sense of being supported rather than standing empty-handed. It’s not about direct problem-solving but about creating a profound sense of unity.

Neo-Reichian Pulsations, developed by Aneesha Dillon, supports this process on the body level. Through breath, movement, and expression, it helps release held tensions and awaken vital energy. This method restores aliveness and presence, complementing constellation and ritual work. I offer Neo-Reichian Pulsations in in-person half-day immersions as a way to integrate insights through direct embodied experience.

Choosing Your Experience

Let this step be not logical, but real — like a calling, like a breath, like a step beyond boundaries.

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“Only the one who follows their destiny receives their full dignity and strength.” Bert Hellinger

Family Constellations Group in Nanoose Bay/ Victoria, BC & Online

If you would like to receive your Constellation in a group with Representatives, reach out to me by email at info@vitalitylink.com. I will then send you further information.

The specific time and date will be arranged together, based on what works best for both of us.

Meet Your Facilitator

Thank you for being here. My name is Ekaterina and I am a trained Family Constellations Facilitator & Energy Healing Coach, and I’m also learning shamanic practices.

I didn’t come to this work through theory—I came through lived experience. Years in business taught me how to succeed, but they also taught me what it means to feel stuck, even when everything looks fine on the outside.

That quiet restlessness became a doorway. It stirred something deeper in my soul—a longing to live and work in a way that felt true to my heart. First as a seeker, then as a practitioner, I began to follow the call toward a more authentic path.

Over the years, I trained in family constellations, systemic ritual, family constellations & shamanic rituals in the Wheel of the Four Directions, energetic healing, and holistic coaching with teachers around the world. Each modality offered a new lens—and together, they formed a practice that honours the wholeness of each person, the systems they belong to, and the wisdom of the soul.

For the past eight years, I’ve been working with individuals, couples, and groups as a Family Constellations Facilitator & Energy Healing Coach. I support them on their own journeys.

Most recently, my work has entered a new phase, guided by a space beyond mind and identity, where change happens not by doing, but by noticing and being present. Instead of relying on fixed techniques, sessions unfold through listening and allowing the system to move on its own. This helps patterns shift from within, creating lasting, natural change.

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